It's a general thought that teenage is the most sensitive phase of life
and I heard people saying it's the most complicated too.. We cross through
loads of emotions love, break up, friends, family, success, failures, happiness,
sorrows what not.. But its uncertain. For me crossing it was like almost a cake walk.
I can say the phase after teenage would teach people a lot in life...
At the very early age of 23, where quite often,in specific when you are a girl,
you are subjected either to attend someone's marriage or get married..
Society, which is considered to be part and parcel of our life, seem to conceal
people's life from what exaclty they are..
This might seem to exaggerate things, might seem to be so common for everyone,except for
those who do impossible things in possible way..
An unwritten rule, where people are moved away by emotional blackmail, breaking up with
their love just to comfort their parents and society, convincing their heart to marry
and live with someone, disguising themselves in the name of sacrifice. Blaming the situations,
that did not allow them to take decisions and knowing not the results of decision
lies in their hands.
For those who are bold enough to take decision on their own, going against the society
for the pure sake of their happiness, ends up with the name Selfish.
The society which preaches us "This is wrong" fails to answer the "Whys" and the most
pathetic condition is, there are very less to explain the reason behind the unwritten rule..
So everything is right as such and there exists no value for any relation?!
It does exists, all that your heart drifts you to the path that would keeps the
morality as such, but many fail to understand that.
It is right for a man to stay single throughout life, but a woman gets awarded with
a new name by the people who makes the society. Ceratinly, it cares too much
to poke nose and question a women's life when she is single , or staying with a partner
but not ready to get married..
The most difficult part comes when she chose to stay single adopting a child..
Blind rules,keeps insisting people something is wrong, and must not be followed,forget to portray the
aftermath behind it..
Time will answer, just keep moving on, taking life as it comes, be a roman while in rome, remains
as perfect answer for those who really are the part of society which has a least convincing answers..
Sacrificing keeps increasing potentially with a considerable decrease in self realisation until and
unless you make a path that as suggested by your heart...
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