Just to start wid... "Almost every man wastes part of his life in attempts to display qualities which he does not possess, and to gain applause which he cannot keep..."should i b so?....when i did put forth the question to myself the answer was in negative....i jus wanna say, Be yourself...no matter what situaton you are in but keep in mind that Your stubbornness and desire for being YOU doesnot affect anyone...anyone who is too close to you...I love to be the master,,,,the controller,,,a domineer....NOT on anyone but to my own mind and heart...so be their master...allow them to be under your control and never be under them....Coz these two are the most dangerous enemies as well which is capable of defeating you when you are confused...Make friends....The most tremendous gift given to us...Have a bunch...not enough?...have a lots n lots ...nothing wrong in it.I love to do so...Finally Be Calm..I always wonder at the people who are too aggressive..Nothing is lost when you remain calm for a while and nothing is gained when you are raging everytime...Give up sometimes..to those who really mean to you..I never consider it to be a very big defeat...These are the little things that ll surely make your life a pleasing one...Try once nothing wrong.....:) :)